Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Your two cents, please!

We are really having a hard time coming up with the perfect name for our little chinita. We've all agreed that her middle name will be "Mei," which in Chinese means beautiful. We will probably add a second middle name, most likely the name they gave her in the orphanage. But as far as her first name is concerned, it is a hard decision. Here is what we have so far....

Elizabeth Mei _______ Fernandez Nicknames: Ellie, Eli, Lizzy
or
Gabriela Mei ________ Fernandez Nicknames: Gaby or Gabby

There were other names that I really liked such as Grace and Sophie, but Lalo didn't like them.

I strongly feel that her name should have significant meaning considering the circumstances. Gabriela means...the Lord is my strength. Very appropriate, don't you think? And Elizabeth, which has been trailing us for years, means... consecrated to God. Hmm?

So, I'd love to hear which you like best!

Christy :o)

2 comments:

Danny&Nina said...

Christy, it's wonderful that you're doing this to document your journey. Regardless of what her name winds up being, your new daughter will always have this as a testament to the loving spirit with which she was welcomed into the world. It's also an excellent release, a way for you to constructively channel your emotions during the process.

Since you asked, my vote would be for Elizabeth Mei -- not sure if Natalie feels territorial about her middle name, though. Nina prefers it as well.

All the best,
Little brother

Jason said...

First, I agree with Danny that this is a very touching and lasting way to celebrate and welcome your new daughter. In a world filled with chaos and so much disconnection - it's important that baby Mei understand she was wanted, loved and cherished even before she was conceived.

I disagree with Danny on the name though! I prefer Gabriela Mei, and think it is quite fitting. Besides, whether Natalie is territorial or not, GABRIELA should have her OWN name story - one that ends with - I was given a special name - that no one else in my family had (or almost had!) - because it fit me so well!

I can't wait to hold you GABRIELA...ELIZABETH...BABY MEI...